Perspective - we all need a good dose of it every now and then.
Just as our friend Tim has settled nicely onto the path towards a promising recovery, another bright light in the cycling world has been hit with the worst news that anyone can ever receive - his wife is dying.
I've never met Elden Nelson (aka The Fat Cyclist), or his beautiful wife Susan, or any of their stunning four kids, but I have long been a huge fan of Elden's blog, his writing, and his infectious spirit. For ages now Elden has struck an incredible balance in writing, on one hand, some of the funniest pieces on cycling I've ever read and, on the other hand, some of the most touching and personal accounts of his wife's battle with cancer.
Even though I have never met anyone in the Nelson family, I openly wept at my computer twice this week as I read his posts about finding that Susan's cancer has moved to her brain and that, according to their oncologist, they are now "out of options." Susan has only a few more months to live.
As I mother, my first thought was of all the milestones in the lives of those four kids that Susan is going to miss. I thought about Elden and what the future will be like for him raising those kids on his own. I thought about my own kids, my own husband and my own health - I think it's impossible for any of us to hear a story like this without doing the same.
There are literally hundreds of comments on Elden's blog offering thoughts and prayers from every corner of the world. The whole Nelson family is very loved. These are good, good people going through something that is truly unimaginable to someone who's never been there. These are strong, courageous people. These are people who deserve so much better.
But these are also people who have taken their love and their courage and their spirit and created a huge, positive energy in the universe and no matter how long or short Susan's path may be, her spirit will be remembered for much longer, and will continue to impact and influence even those who - like me - never had the honor of meeting her.